Keys to the VIP Episode #1 (4 of 4)

| Friday, January 5, 2007



Simple Dating Rules that Work (4 of 4)

Another rule you should follow is don’t sleep with her until the third date. Of course, give her a passionate kiss, exactly the kind that makes her think that you’re going to have sex (or at least, make her hope that you’re going to have sex), but suddenly pull back. It’ll heighten the chemistry and fuel the flames, but it also sends the message that you respect her and aren’t just after her body. It may take a lot of will power (and a very cold shower) but believe us, when you do finally do it, you’ll be glad you waited.


Your accountant will be thankful for this dating rule: don’t spend too much. While the natural instinct is to impress her, pull out all the stops, and give this idea that you’re Mr. Millionaire, the only girls that impresses are the ones you don’t want to keep. Keep it simple, like a coffee date or an alfresco lunch, and let your personality shine. And as for the expensive gifts, save it for when you know it’s the real thing.

Keys to the VIP Episode #1 (3 of 4)

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Simple Dating Rules that Work (3 of 4)

The next rule is that when you do take her out on a date, bring her to place where everyone knows you. It’s one of the easiest ways to impress her—you seem confident, popular, in-the-loop. This can be a favorite restaurant where the waiter gives you the best table in the house, or a bar where the DJ waves hello when you walk by. Every girl wants to be with a guy who has a little social clout, it’s a sign of how well you “own” your “territory”. And of course, having a good table never hurts.The next rule is that when you do take her out on a date, bring her to place where everyone knows you. It’s one of the easiest ways to impress her—you seem confident, popular, in-the-loop. This can be a favorite restaurant where the waiter gives you the best table in the house, or a bar where the DJ waves hello when you walk by. Every girl wants to be with a guy who has a little social clout, it’s a sign of how well you “own” your “territory”. And of course, having a good table never hurts.

Keys to the VIP Episode #1 (2 of 4)

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Simple Dating Rules that Work (2 of 4)

Most dating veterans say to wait at least two or three days before calling her again. The point is that you want to play it cool, even if five minutes after you dropped her off at her apartment, you’re fighting the urge to drive back for another, ah, “fond farewell”. Why this number? You want to look busy enough to say that you have a life and she isn’t the center of it, but not wait too long that she thinks you aren’t interested and finds another date for Friday night.

Keys to the VIP Episode #1 (1 of 4)

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Simple Dating Rules that Work (1 of 4)

Forget quantum mechanics — there is nothing more confusing and complex than the Woman. She says one thing, and means another, and just when you think you know what she wants, she’s changed her mind. But if there’s anything harder than understanding a woman, its dating her. But, here’s hope: simple rules that generally work on most women, and will help you navigate at least the first few weeks of dating.


One of the most debated rules is the “Three Day Call Back”. You’ve had a great date, a fantastic kiss, and you know that you want to ask her out again. The question is how to make her know you’re interested without a) looking desperate, or b) getting her too excited that she’ll start booking wedding venues.